In Loving Memory of what was Joseph Robert Freise
Obituary written by Joe Freeze. *Please read until the end
Joseph Robert Freise, age 46, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on September 11, 2024, in Lake St. Louis, Missouri. Born on October 4, 1977, in St. Louis, Missouri, Joe was a beloved husband, brother, friend, and dedicated professional whose vibrant spirit touched the lives of many.
Early Life and Education
Joe grew up in St. Louis and graduated from Ritenour High School. He pursued higher education at Southeast Missouri State University and furthered his studies at SLCC: Florissant Valley. His passion for learning and creativity led him to diverse career paths, where he made significant contributions as a writer, investigative journalist, Accounting Coordinator, RPA Architect, and ADI Research/Developer.
Career and Achievements
Throughout his career, Joe was known for his innovative mindset and dedication to excellence. He aspired to make a meaningful impact on the world by raising future leaders and eliminating loneliness. Joe proudly declared, "I want to put my robots on other planets," reflecting his visionary approach and love for technology. Although his last RPA Development contract was canceled by TekSystems, Joe was actively working to start an RPA Consultancy, showcasing his entrepreneurial spirit.
Personal Life
Joe was a devoted husband to Heather Michelle Freise and a loving brother to John Marshall Freise, James Henry Freise, and their families. He cherished his role as an uncle to William and Samuel Freise. In his free time, Joe enjoyed writing, making electronic music, engaging in RPA projects, and playing video games. His friends fondly remember him as someone who loved having fun and spending time with loved ones, even if he jestingly claimed to "hate people" but adored gatherings.
Joe's personality was a blend of humor and depth. He had a remarkable ability to lighten the mood, though he was also acutely aware of the impact his words could have. This self-awareness sometimes led to feelings of shame, but it also highlighted his genuine care for those around him. Despite battling PTSD, caretaker burnout, and survivor's guilt, Joe's love for his family was unwavering.
Special Memories
Joe's friends and family will always remember his endearing clumsiness—likening him to a "bull in a china shop." These moments of playful mishaps were a testament to his joyful and unguarded nature, bringing laughter and warmth to those around him.
Legacy and Contributions
Joe's vision for a better world continues to inspire those who knew him. His dedication to fostering leadership and combating loneliness leaves a lasting legacy that his loved ones will strive to carry forward. Although he passed before seeing these dreams come to fruition, Joe's aspirations serve as a guiding light for future endeavors.
Final Wishes
In accordance with his wishes, Joe's remains were cremated and released into the atmosphere via a weather balloon, allowing his spirit to spread across the earth and beyond.
Favorite Quote
"You win some, you lose some. It's just your time to lose."
Joe's words resonate with his resilient spirit and his ability to find perspective even in challenging times.
Remembering Joe
Joe Robert Freise will be deeply missed by his real family, friends, and all who had the misery of knowing him. This wouldn’t have been necessary if you would have at LEAST given me the time of the day, a 1 second ‘fuck you,’ or pissed on me if I was on fire. I won’t be rude to you, just will treat you with the same respect you treated me.
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His legacy of love, laughter, and visionary dreams will continue to live on in the hearts of those he touched.